ANALISIS PERAN ORANGTUA DALAM MENGATASI PERILAKU SIBLING RIVALRY ANAK USIA DINI

Abstrak

Abstract
The relationship between younger siblings and siblings is one of the interactions that has the
potential to cause conflict and can lead to sibling rivalry behavior. The results of observations
indicate the occurrence of sibling rivalry behavior in several Rukoh Gampong families in Banda
Aceh. The formulation of the problem in the research is what is the form of sibling rivalry behavior
that occurs in Gampong Rukoh, how is the parenting strategy for sibling rivalry behavior in early
childhood in Gampong Rukoh. The purpose of this study was to determine the form of sibling
rivalry behavior that occurs in Gampong Rukoh, and to determine parenting strategies for sibling
rivalry behavior in early childhood in Gampong Rukoh. This study used a qualitative approach, the
research subjects were 3 families. Data were collected through interviews and documentation. Data
were analyzed using qualitative analysis techniques, the Miles & Huberman model. The results
showed that the behavior of sibling rivalry that occurred in early childhood in Gampong Rukoh was quarrels between siblings, brother or sister power, grabbing parental attention, jealousy and
feelings of rivalry by their siblings. The parenting strategy carried out by the parents of Gampong
Rukoh is that parents teach their children independent attitudes, parents give understanding to
children, parents accompany children, parents find solutions to children, parents let children, and
parents teach discipline to children.

Abstrak
Hubungan antara adik dan kakak yang masih kecil merupakan salah satu interaksi yang
berpotensi menimbulkan konflik dan bisa menyebabkan perilaku sibling rivalry. Hasil
observasi menunjukkan terjadinya perilaku sibling rivalry di pada beberapa keluarga
Gampong Rukoh Banda Aceh. Rumusan masalah dalam penelitian yaitu bagaimana
bentuk perilaku sibling rivalry yang terjadi di Gampong Rukoh, bagaimana strategi
pengasuhan orangtua terhadap perilaku sibling rivalry pada anak usia dini di Gampong
Rukoh. Tujuan penelitian ini untuk mengetahui bentuk perilaku sibling rivalry yang
terjadi di Gampong Rukoh, dan untuk mengetahui strategi pengasuhan orangtua
terhadap perilaku sibling rivalry pada anak usia dini di Gampong Rukoh. Penelitian ini
menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif, subjek penelitian sebanyak 3 keluarga. Data
dikumpulkan melalui wawancara dan dokumentasi. Data dianalisis menggunakan teknik
analisis kualitatif model Miles & Huberman. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa
perilaku sibling rivalry yang terjadi pada anak usia dini di Gampong Rukoh yaitu
pertengkaran antar saudara, sikap berkuasa kakak atau adik, saling merebutkan
perhatian orang tua, sikap cemburu dan rasa tersaingi oleh saudaranya. Strategi
pengasuhan yang dilakukan oleh orangtua Gampong Rukoh adalah orangtua
mengajarkan sikap mandiri pada anak, orangtua memberikan pengertian pada anak,
orangtua mendampingi anak, orangtua mencarikan solusi kepada anak, orangtua
membiarkan anak, dan orangtua mengajarkan disiplin pada anak.